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Lady Seraphina

Female 43 Mistress
Calgary CA
Joined October 2010
June 13

All about Lady Seraphina

Biography
A bit about me I have been kinky as far back as I can remember, but it wasn't until I was 19 that I began to play. It wasn't long before BDSM was a huge part of my life, although it took a back seat to other things for a few years. In early 2006 I had the opportunity to restructure my life, and was able to make play a huge priority. I'm ever so glad I did.

I have tried many activities, and continue to do so, keeping an open mind on all things, even those I personally dont enjoy, though I only engage in forms of play that interest me. I attend workshops to develop new skills, though I am not very active in the local community, as I am a private person.

My sadistic nature has surprised me as it grew. Years ago I would never have thought I would be able to laugh while caning someone's bottom most cruelly, yet now I routinely do. I do have limits, including causing bodily harm such as internal injuries or broken bones. I also have a hard limit regarding scat (fecal matter).

I enjoy helping you develop your skills as a submissive or slave along with your comfort level in what you do.

I very much enjoy my visits with my subs, but it is also important that you never get the idea that romance is on the horizon at least not between the two of us. I have a husband and a wife I love very much, and that is non-negotiable. I do not engage in sexual play outside of my relationships with them, with the notable exception of pegging (strap-on) and other anal play.

I use a mix of sarcasm and sweetness that may be surprising to those expecting to play with an ber-bitch, but for most this is something easily adjusted to. For those who are looking for a bitch-Domme, or to be verbally degraded, their search will not end with me. Some playful verbal humiliation and embarrassment is fine, however.

First Session
I know many people wonder what happens the first time we meet, so Ive written a basic account of a first session, from email introductions through to the session itself.

When you first contact me, either from my business card, ads, kink websites, or simply finding me on the internet, I first look at your attitude in the email or phone call, and correct it if needed. You must always treat me with respect in all things.

Next, I direct you to my website, or back to it if you were here first, in order to be sure you know what I'm all about. If you read the front page and my bio, and think that I may be the Domme you're looking for, you are then to read the Tribute page and make sure you can afford my guidance. This is my career as well as something I love to do, but it does not come cheaply.

From there you will read the FAQ and the Play page, then email me and we will make plans to meet for a consultation over coffee. I hold my consultations at a pub, but do not order an alcoholic beverage - you are never to consume alcohol or drugs prior to playing with me. There is a consultation fee of $40, which I waive if we book the first session and consult back-to-back, and do decide to play. You MUST confirm by phone at least one hour ahead of the consultation. Leave a message if you reach my voicemail. If I do not receive that confirmation call, I will not be present at the meeting place, as some boys and girls get cold feet, and I do not waste my time.

During our consultation we will talk about the list, about any factors that will influence your play (ie: having a spouse at home, medical concerns, or phobias). We decide whether or not we like each other, and if we feel comfortable together, we return to my playroom for the session.

What we do during the session will be determined in part by our discussion and your interests, and in part by what I feel like doing. This is as it should be. If you are a new player, the first session will be a BDSM-101 style session. I will focus on your interests, but take you through them slowly, teaching you about play, what is happening to you, and what questions you should have in the future.

During this first session I require you to communicate with me a great deal, since I do not know your body yet. At the end of every session, I give you an opportunity to speak freely with me, and provide feedback. As long as it is phrased respectfully, I am open to any questions, concerns, or requests you may wish to make. That does not mean you will get exactly what you want, but you may be free to ask for it.

Congratulations, you just had your first session. That wasn't so scary, was it?

After the session you may call or email me to share your thoughts, or thank me for my time and energy. Do NOT send me a plethora of emails, or forward memes.

CONTACT
You may email at any time, but restrict your phone calls to between the hours of 1PM and 10PM, Mountain Standard Time (MST).

If you call me to confirm a consultation and get my voicemail, leave a message. If you are simply trying to contact me, try again in an hour or two (as I may be in session) or send me an email. I do not return phone calls.
403.464.5117
lady@seraphina.ca
www.ladyseraphina.ca

Cancellations
Life happens. Before booking a session, do your utmost to ensure the time will be available. In the event of an emergency, you may reschedule with at least three hours notice. If you need to reschedule or cancel a session on the day it is booked, call me at 403.464.5117 and leave a voicemail if you do not get through. Twenty-four hours in advance, you may call or email to notify me of your need to cancel.

Cancelling a session or rescheduling, if you notify me, is acceptable. Cancelling more than one session in a row may result in losing your position in my stable.

No Shows
If you cannot attend a session or meeting with me, it is imperative you call. Even if circumstances result in a last-minute need to reschedule, I will look more favourably upon it if you contact me.

Simply not showing up to a scheduled meeting or session will result in permanent loss of your position in my stable.

Tribute (Rates)
As a professional Domme, I require tribute. I am not all about money, but this allows me the time to see many people, and focus on my vocation. It also signifies your appreciation of my time - if you played with a Domme on a personal level, she would expect you to serve and do for her. In this case, what you offer is financial tribute, rather than service.

When you first contact me, I want you to tell me a bit about yourself, and if it looks like we may have fun together, we will book a consultation. There is a nominal consultation fee of $40, since I could otherwise be booking a session. This also tells me you are serious in your interest. In the consultation I will answer all of your questions and determine if you are an acceptable addition to my stable. If so, we will return to my playroom for the session. I have found it is best to book the consultation and first session back-to-back.

Sessions and consultations must be requested a minimum of one day in advance. On occasion, my regular boys and girls may request a short-notice (same day) session. This must still be requested several hours in advance, and requires a $40 short notice fee in addition to normal tribute. I am rarely able to accommodate short notice sessions, however.

We play in my home, in my well-equipped playroom.

Lady Seraphina's Tribute
Tribute for sessions is $300 for the first hour, $100 for each additional hour, per session. Sessions are booked in increments of an hour, and you must specify requested session length when booking. Boys and girls who book a session within 4 weeks of their last session save $50 ($250 for the first hour). Bondage (no active play) is $300 for the first hour, $50 for each additional hour.

Out of Town Sessions
When booking an out of town session, either setting up a visit to another city, or booking a session where I already have a trip planned, a deposit is required. Once you have made the arrangements with me, you will need to make a deposit to secure the booking. Do not pay the deposit until you have been in touch with me to set up a date and time, otherwise I'll consider it a gift. ;)

I accept deposits and financial gifts via interac email transfer. Send it to lady@seraphina.ca
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Languages
English
Nationalities
Canadian

Personality

Mistress

Gender

Female

Age

43