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Mistress Charlyn

Straight Female 31 Mistress
I am a lifestyle nanny/dominatrix residing in southeast Asia.
Bangkok TH
Joined March 2018
April 3
+66 615 632 675

All about Mistress Charlyn

I am a lifestyle nanny/dominatrix residing in southeast Asia of Bangkok, Thailand. In my profession I have been practicing BDSM scene for 11 years. I am also a fetish model and business consultant of http://www.satinpansy.com.

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While writing the “Night Prowl” column for Coconuts Bangkok, I’ve managed to meet some of the most deviant and dynamic characters in the underbelly of Thailand’s capital.

But there’s nobody that quite fits that bill like Mistress Charlyn, a professional dominatrix originally from the Philippines.

“I love blood, I’ve explored it sexually many times,” she says at one point in our conversation, so casually we could be talking about mani-pedis or the newest mall.

“For example, when a slave is bound and tied up, mouth gagged, and I prick his nipple and the blood slowly goes out like that,” she laughs. “Damn, maybe I am a sadist.”

The fetish model and self-professed “goddess and ruler” lives between her home province Cebu and Bangkok, where she goes at least twice a month for private dominatrix sessions and photo shoots.

I met up with the mistress on Skype as she was starting off her day in Philippines. Her current live-in slave (“Slutty Whore” as she affectionately calls him) had just finished making her lunch.

“I love waking up every morning, and there’s a Barbie doll in my kitchen,” she grins, referring to the leather, fishnet and wigs she makes her “sissies” (men who get off on role-playing as women) wear. “And he’s asking me, ‘Mistress, what do you want to eat?’ These are my rules, this is my life and many different kinds of slaves want to experience that.”

“I have slaves in politics, foreign diplomats, CEOs, stockholders,” says Mistress Charlyn.

Charlyn has slaves and sissies around the world — Switzerland, London, United States — who are always on bended knee. She sporadically sends them tasks by email and chat, including what to do or wear.

She has around 25 regular slaves, and each send her a monthly “tribute” of around US$300.

For BDSMers, a “tribute” is an amount of money to show appreciation. Some of her slaves buy her new clothes or items from her personal wish list. The most expensive gift she ever received so far is a car.

“I have slaves in politics, foreign diplomats, CEOs, stockholders,” she says. “But I can easily dismiss any of them. I’m not afraid of anything, and I don’t care if they are the owner of the company. I’m not into their money, I’m in it for the real submission.”

And that is what Charlyn is the most proud of. She is a dominatrix in her veins, truly thrilled by watching those who experience pain as pleasure. While other mistresses hang up their boots at the end of the day, Charlyn insists that, for her, it’s a 24/7 lifestyle — and she wouldn’t have it any other way.

“I’m ready to explore everything about this,” she said. “I’m like a psychologist. Being a dominatrix is really hard work because if you don’t know how to discipline yourself then you don’t know how to discipline someone else. I need to be in their head… but that gets me very excited.”

Even from a young age, the 27-year-old says she knew she had such an inclination. At 12, she was already learning about fetish online. As a teenager, she started frequenting chat rooms and collecting knee-high leather boots, and at 19 she finally decided it was time to take her first slave.

“I could never forget that moment,” she said, taking a sip of red wine. There’s a glimmer in her eye – or maybe just a reflection of her PVC leather jacket? “He was a French guy with a big diaper fetish and I wanted to explore it… I was nervous, maybe he would be a freak or brutal. But he was cool, and I loved it.”

Charlyn was raised in a Catholic, middle-class family. She’s the eldest of nine brothers and sisters who think she’s a fashion model.

She maintains strict ground rules both at home and in the dungeon, stating she firmly draws the line at drugs, inflicting permanent injury and underage minors. Believe it or not, Charlyn also refuses to have sex with most of her slaves.

“To be honest, 50 Shades of Grey is rubbish,” says Mistress Charlyn. “It’s making the vanilla people out there get into kink, but it’s vanilla kink.”

“That is one of the problems with mainstream BDSM,” she says. “Mistresses will have sex with the slave because they feel obligated to. But to me, it’s not like that. A mistress should have sex or use the slave only when she wants and when she likes it, it’s not that she must be forced.”

She says the BDSM lifestyle is fading, as dominance and submission becomes more commercial. Christian Grey, the mistress is talking to you.

“To be honest, 50 Shades of Grey is rubbish,” says Charlyn. “It’s making the vanilla people out there get into kink, but it’s vanilla kink. For me, there’s nothing deep in it… but hey, it’s an eye-opener for couples on how to add a little spice into their night.”

In her free time, Charlyn enjoys going to the beach, gym and most of all, writing fiction literature. She recently released her first book on Amazon, Ninjiara, a “twisted story about a goddess, knight and a little bit of kink, of course.”

Charlyn’s ultimate goal is to one day build and rule her own “femdom dream house” with a live-in sissy maid, secretary and bodyguard. She never wants to lead what she calls a “vanilla housewife life.”

“I would like to have, let’s say, three or four slaves living with me, and I would choose one to be my husband,” she explains. “It would still be like a dominant-slave relationship but the other slaves would accept him and be understanding of that.”

She wants to explore “more deep stuff, degradation, vomit and excrement” and she hopes to travel to Europe, in particular Germany, where “people really know what’s kinky”.

At the same time, Charlyn has no illusions about what the future may hold. She’s set on enjoying the moment — and that’s what makes this dominatrix interesting, but also relatable.

“I know one day I’m going to be 60, and I won’t be able to do this anymore,” she said. “That’s why I’m saving and also putting a lot of work into my family’s import and export business. Who knows, one day I’ll get old and I’ll be the one financing this lifestyle.”

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Everything begins with the first step…

you are a lost creature. you have felt this way since you were a child. The desire to be before a powerful Superior Domina is something you have wanted since before you knew what it was. It began as a fetish you were attracted to a certain kind of woman. A strong, powerful confident woman. Over the years you have tried to understand what it means and where it comes from but you do not know why. you may feel the desire to spoil and please Her. you may feel this desire to dress up as Her servant and clean Her boots. you may feel this desire to wear those diapers and feel that motherly nanny that takes you back to being a babe. you may feel this desire to be fucked by Her strap-on like the slut you are and yet you may feel this desire to be entirely nude and helpless with Her heels ready to trample your worthless dick. There are many things you feel and some you’ll wonder why. you watch others through their posts and photos expressing these desires. you want to show it but you don’t know where to begin. you don’t know how things are done you don’t even believe it can be fulfilled. So many are lost and so many desire to serve more than anything in this lifetime. they wake up and feel it, they go to bed and silently sigh even if their loved one lies beside them. Some have none at all and it just makes them feel even more lost than they could possibly wish. The thing you need to understand is you will never know what it could be until you take that step. Everything in life begins with that first step that first choice to some it is trying to spice up their lives is what they crave. Others though are far deeper and they are longing for more than most could ever fathom. But it is embracing those feelings and following through on them that is the first step to releasing the desire. It does not matter what it is as long as you deny it you are just living in the shadows of it. And when you first try you may fail. The first one you see may not be what you expect. She maybe too harsh, she maybe too nice, she maybe not interested at all but you have to take the first step and reach out to embrace what it is you feel. The disappointment will come and you will feel that it is hopeless at times but the way to showing sincerity is to put your desire behind and focus on Hers. For you are a servant no matter if you are a fin-slave, a sissy, a slut, a maid, a slave naked at Her boot. you are putting yourself at Her command Her will Her desire. you must realize that everyday she receives messages of a slave wanting to serve but there is no reason to care if there is no effort shown. No sacrifice, no offerings, no tribute as a gift to the Domme. It is a risk trying to serve a Domme but if you are not willing to put yourself in completely you are just going to be frustrated. you must show your sincerity you must show how you want to put Her first. you won’t hand all control over just in one meeting it is only through time and experience and becoming more comfortable that you will desire to please even deeper. And there is no one fits all woman either for as much as many want to claim to be. you have to feel that connection, you have to feel that desire. It doesn’t matter if its just an online thing or real-time or both when you’re with Her you’re putting yourself at Her mercy. At Her control at Her command no matter what it is but at the same-time you have to want to please Her. So if you truly want to serve and be a servant then put aside.
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Languages
English Cebuano (Visayan) Tagalog
Nationalities
Filipino Spanish

Personality

Mistress

Eyes

Brown

Hairs

Black

Skin

Medium Tan

Gender

Female

Sexuality

Straight

Body Shape

Normal

Age

31

Sex

Anal Sex
Bisexuality
Face-sitting
Fisting
Forced-Bi
Forced-Fem
Marriage/LTR
Polyamory
Poppers
Sex Toys
Straight Sex
Strapon
Watersports

BDSM

Ball Gags
Begging
Blindfolds
Bondage
Cages
CBT
Collars
Contracts
CP
Cuffs
Domination
Dungeons
Edge Play
Electrics
Enemas
Femdom
Floggers
Gags
Hoods
Hot Wax
Hypnotism
Leashes
Maid Training
Masochism
Mistresses
Mummification
Muzzles
Needles
Public Humiliation
Punishment
Queening
Reins
Sadism
Slaves
Spanking
Spreaders
Suspension
Trampling
Whipping

Clothing

Basques
Sissy Dresses

Fetish

Boot worship
Feminisation
Heavy Makeup
Photo Sessions
Role Play
Sex slaves

Out and About

Can Accomodate
Clubbing
Fetish Clubs
Fetish Fairs
Hotels
Shopping Trips

TV/TS

Crossdressing
Housework
Maids
Makeovers
Shemales
Sissies
Transsexuals
Transvestites
TV Dommes

Last Comments

Avatar MaidCarolin
MaidCarolin
August 1st, 2018
Mistress Charlyn, it is a pity that the distance is so great.