This has been a journy of frustration
People have asked me what's my kink?
And I get bewildered and confused looks continually when I tell people
I'm a sensual sadist
the common question is how can I be both..
So this is my attempt to explain
What is Sensualist?
The popular dictionary definition is
" A person devoted to physical, especially sexual, pleasure.."
What is a sadist?
The popular dictionary definition is:
" A person who derives pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain or humiliation on others."
And by in large the purist among the community sees only this side... in my experience.
So what happens when you mix these apparently different ends of the spectrum together?
This is where I find myself.
I get aroused by torturing my partner not by inflicting pain or humiliation But making them want something that is just out of reach overloading their senses their desires their raw lust and yet not letting them have that release... not until I let them..
No more running the race in high gear to the finish line.
This takes time to build up create the atmosphere bring them to a heightened state of arousal.
This journey tends to start days sometimes weeks prior to actually physically being together. Listening and talking discovering what my partner needs, wants, their desires and what limits that i can be pushed.
Seduction of one's mind arousing their senses with words and thoughts Thru text, phone calls, images and even the passing glance if you have the luxury to be close enough to see each other regularly. All of which does not need to be overtly sexual in nature but subtle ideation of things that might.
This is where learning about my partners desires takes place and builds their arousal for what has not yet happened and the start of denying them their sexual release..
We then take this to the next stage
The auditory, tactile and sensory stimulation or deprivation. This can be a very interesting and fun stage and takes patience and discipline for it is easy to rush in and get caught up in the moment but this is where taking your time is so important building their arousal even more.
From the soft touch of my hand gliding down their side the growl or whisper in their ear, pulling their hair back towards me and softly biting the back of their neck, blind folding them so they can not see what your about to do take this on step further and have music playing in head phones so the can’t hear.
Tying them to the bed on their back or sometimes even better having them standing, Using different sensations to tantalize them from feathers to steal, soft to firm warmth to cold ice using my hands, lips and bodies rubbing against each other all the while watching their reaction bring them closer and closer to climax and denying them each time.
And then the moments where I do nothing at all and make them wait with anticipation of what might happen next.
Each time starting slowly bringing them closer to release edging them close exploring every part of their body stimulating them playing with their breast and nipples running fingers, tongue and lips slowly down across their belly working slowly lower and lower the contrast between firm hands pulling them closer to me and soft lips softly kissing my tongue caressing bringing them closer still until she can’t handle it, then stop and wait some more each time doing a little more bring her closer and closer each time.
Other times, especially if I know the bottom I am playing with, I'd want to use more personal fears, fear of insects, fear of exposure, fear of blood etc. Keeping in mind that the exposure to those fears doesn't have to be real- but can get just as powerful responses from being imaginary.
For me as a top, I also greatly enjoy having a heavy focus on sensual intimacy to level the intensity of the fear experience. Balancing between loving touches, affection, and closeness in an affectionate way.
I consider Myself a Sensual Fem Domme. I reek of sensuality and sexuality and it comes out of every pour of My being. I have a definate susual touch be it with My hands, fingertips and even through My instruments of choice (paddles, whips, floggers, etc.)
. Think of gentle Fem-Dom as female domination without the elements of pain, harsh punishment, or humiliation. Think of gentle Fem-Dom as female domination without the elements of pain, harsh punishment, or humiliation. It can be sexual, only BDSM-based, or role-based. Gentle Fem-Dom is more infused with love and nurturing.
People underestimate the power of touch so greatly. Being teased with light touching , sensory enhancement or deprivation , or even just anticipation can bring on a powerful experience
What this all comes down to, is the nature of interactions during the scene. How mannerism, gaze, touch and closeness provoke loving, trusting, wanting responses- combined with anticipation by using elements that elicit fear and excitement.
I reek of sensuality and sexuality and it comes out of every pour of My being. I have a definate susual touch be it with My hands, fingertips and even through My instruments of choice (paddles, whips, floggers, etc.)
So naturally during playtime or sessioning I consider it sensual play. Sessioning excites Me to the core, it makes Me dripping wet and I let them know in many ways. I do have sensual music playing along with candles in My dungeon and once I am wet often while they are on the cross after a good flogging I rub Myself on them (their legs) showing how excited I have become.
I also love tease and denial.
If I really like them and am very excited I might tie them to My bondage bed and blindfold them, get naked...lay next to them and pleasure Myself before sending them home. This is what I consider sensual Domination.
Commonly, I'd wish to either use primal fears: fear of being cut, burned, being blind, fear of not breathing, fear of not being able to move to create this kind of scene.Other times, especially if I know the bottom I am playing with, I'd want to use more personal fears, fear of insects, fear of exposure, fear of blood etc. Keeping in mind that the exposure to those fears doesn't have to be real- but can get just as powerful responsesI consider Myself a Sensual Fem Domme.
Sensual sadist? or Sensual Dom?
So there it is my attempt to explain Me.
p.s- if you felt i have answered your question, or would like to ask more question, feel free to send me 10 credits as gratitude and i be happy to go through it with u x thanks x
Mistress Olivia Twist x
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